Date Talk Live with Cheryl and Brent

**Live recording with audience** This month Cheryl and her date have a shared interest in creative endeavors which brings them together but his exceptionally youthful appearance and his exceptionally heavy cannabis intake pushes them apart. During the course of their dates he generously helps talk Cheryl through some race related dating issues.  The Green Scene TV - Brent Green thegreenscenetv.com on YouTube Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read this!): http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/why-do-white-people-think-people-color-are-obligated-teach-them-about-race http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-what-does-it-mean-to-be-white/ Interracial Statistics; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer www.ComedyCheryl.com www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl Date Talk:  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ Twitter @ilove2chatter

**Live recording with audience**

This month Cheryl and her date have a shared interest in creative endeavors which brings them together but his exceptionally youthful appearance and his exceptionally heavy cannabis intake pushes them apart. During the course of their dates he generously helps talk Cheryl through some race related dating issues. 

The Green Scene TV - Brent Green
thegreenscenetv.com
on YouTube

Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read this!):
http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/why-do-white-people-think-people-color-are-obligated-teach-them-about-race
http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-what-does-it-mean-to-be-white/

Interracial Statistics;
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk
http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

www.ComedyCheryl.com

www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

Date Talk: 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/

Twitter @ilove2chatter

The Date Talk Game Show With Alexandria and Adam

This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira debrief the latest contestants from The Date Talk Game Show. Alexandria and Adam clicked on the stage but sputtered a bit on their first dinner date.  Was it too soon for the recently single Alex or did Adam go over the top with his giddy like for her?  Come to the next Date Talk Game Show at Pappy's in Berkeley November 25th and be the join in the fun. Alexandria Love's podcast: Here's Why That's Funny - https://www.facebook.com/hereswhythatsfunny/?fref=ts Pappy's Bar and Grill-  http://www.pappysontelegraph.com/ Angelina's Louisiana Kitchen- http://www.angelineskitchen.com/

This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira debrief the latest contestants from The Date Talk Game Show. Alexandria and Adam clicked on the stage but sputtered a bit on their first dinner date.  Was it too soon for the recently single Alex or did Adam go over the top with his giddy like for her?  Come to the next Date Talk Game Show at Pappy's in Berkeley November 25th and be the join in the fun.

Alexandria Love's podcast: Here's Why That's Funny - https://www.facebook.com/hereswhythatsfunny/?fref=ts

Pappy's Bar and Grill-  http://www.pappysontelegraph.com/

Angelina's Louisiana Kitchen- http://www.angelineskitchen.com/

Songs snippets:

After Adam: "Still Breathing" Green Day

After Alex: "Upside Down"  Set it Off

At the end: "Perfect Illusion" Lady Gaga

Date Talk: Ropes

From our original non-radio version of Date Talk. This time Cheryl navigates the world of Bay Area BDSM.  Is it a bad idea to let a guy tie you up on your second date?   

Music: 
Rhianna- "S & M"
Puddle of Mudd- "Control"
Brooke Hogan Feat. Flo Rida- "Ruff me Up"

FetLife is the social network for the BDSM, Fetish and Kinky community. 

https://fetlife.com/

Black Thorn is a welcoming, well-equipped dungeon located in the lovely Lake Merritt area of Oakland, Ca.

http://black-thorn.org/

Photo Credit: Chris Mettraux 

https://www.flickr.com/photos/sdzn/

www.ComedyCheryl.com

www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

Date Talk Radio Show/Podcast: 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/

Twitter @ilove2chatter

Date Talk: Stuck in Neutral

What happens when two people have very little chemistry when dating?  Does it make women second guess themselves?  Cheryl's date is interviewed by Ira about his reasons for dropping contact after one "okay" date.

 Stuck in Neutral.mp3

Music:

Macy Gray- "Why Didn't You Call Me"

The Band Perry-  "The Comeback Kid"

Pink- "Fu*&ing Perfect"

 

 

-- 

www.ComedyCheryl.com

www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

Date Talk Radio Show/Podcast: 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/

Twitter @ilove2chatter

Date Talk: Mars Advice

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Today Cheryl's guest co-host, Doug, returns! He is ready to hand out dating advice online.  Send questions to the Date Talk Facebook page and let's get his take on all your dating questions. Cheryl also interviews one of his Tinder dates that he never asked on another date yet she's willing to go out a second time.

Plus New!  "Date Walk" --- Lake Merritt, Oakland

Cheryl asks the public "How soon is it okay to have sex?"

Music-

Timeflies- "Once in Awhile"

Marian Hill- "One Time"

A. K. Paul- "Landcrusin' "

Date Talk: Confidence x3

Today's guest co-host, Doug, went on a first Tinder date ending in a threesome! Cheryl discusses the date with both people.  How did he figure out this first time girl was willing to engage in a threesome?  Is confidence the key?   What made her decide to go for it? Listen in as we figure it out and join the online community to discuss with us and ask this couple some serious questions.  

Music-

Bob Morganstein- "Three's Company Theme"
Shaw Blades- "Lucky Man"
A. K. Paul- "Landcrusin' "

Join the conversation or comment:

TheDateTalk@gmail.com

Or

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

Check us out at:

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2

http://www.comedycheryl.com/

https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter

https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

 

 

Date Talk: At Your Service

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Cheryl steps outside her comfort zone and agrees to a date with a "service submissive".  Ira and Cheryl learn exactly where that falls on the dominant/submissive spectrum and whether that might actually fit Cheryl's desires; after all she does drive a BMW and likes to be treated like a princess.

 

Urban Game Bird- 

https://www.facebook.com/UrbanGameBirds/

Join the conversation or comment:

TheDateTalk@gmail.com

Or

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

 

Check us out at:

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2

http://www.comedycheryl.com/

https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter

https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Lazy Appeal

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Cheryl and Ira discuss a spontaneous Tinder date with a out-spoken, bold, alpha male whose attraction to Cheryl is only a lazy appeal.  You know... you're dating, there's some chemistry, nothing bad to say about your date but it's just not worth the effort necessary to make a serious connection happen. Find out how this thwarts Cheryl's unexpected bad cop fantasy. 

(Date Talk is claiming the coining of the phrase the "Lazy Appeal")

Music-
The Summer Set - " Figure Me Out"
Morcheeba - "Be Yourself"
Danielle Bradbery- "Friend Zone"
Hank Marvin- "Bad Cop"
Inner Circle-"Bad Boys"
Drive-By Truckers- "Used to be a Cop"

Join the conversation or comment:
TheDateTalk@gmail.com
Or
https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

Check us out at:
http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Date or Get Down

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Tinder and naughty photos, do these set-up an assumption for a hook-up? Cheryl gets friend zoned after differing intentions collide.  Ira and Cheryl discuss the perils of mis-matched expectations in dating.  Also, honesty is still the best policy.

(---Pssst, listen as Cheryl gets overly harsh about the date because her feathers get ruffled by some of his critical assessments.)    

 

Music: 

The Weeknd- "The Hills"

TLC- "Creep"

Fall Out Boy- "I Don't Care"

 

 

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Asian Affinity

 

What happens when trust becomes an issue before a date even starts? Cheryl and Ira interview a couple where despite her distinct attraction to Asian men, he doesn't have the confidence to ride out early complications. Tune in as our hosts dig into this dating dilemma.

 

Steve Lee: 

https://www.facebook.com/steveleecomedy

https://www.steveleecomedy.com/

https://www.youtube.com/user/steveleecomedy

https://twitter.com/SteveLeeComedy

 

Facebook Pages for Asian Guys:

https://www.facebook.com/whitegirlswithasianguys

https://www.facebook.com/groups/asianboylovewhitegirls/

 

 K-Pop Music:

Super Junior- "Mr. Simple" http://youtu.be/r6TwzSGYycM

Troublemaker- "Troublemaker"  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-zRAQmKUkI 

 

Kickstarter:

https://www.kickstarter.com/

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl

https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Both sides of the street

This month Cheryl and her date have a shared interest in creative endeavors which brings them together but his exceptionally youthful appearance and his exceptionally heavy cannabis intake pushes them apart. During the course of their dates he generously helps talk Cheryl through some race related dating issues. 

The Green Scene TV - Brent Green
thegreenscenetv.com
on YouTube

Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read this!):
http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/why-do-white-people-think-people-color-are-obligated-teach-them-about-race
http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-what-does-it-mean-to-be-white/

Interracial Statistics;
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk
http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Bye bye bi

Exploring your boundaries of sexual attraction while on a date can be a little unnerving but checking in with yourself to affirm or expand your orientation can be healthy. This month Ira and Cheryl have a Tinder matched couple come into the studio.  Listen in as they all discuss their dates and explore what happens when one woman tests the waters of heterosexual dating.   

Debunking Myths About Sexual Fluidity
http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2014/10/13/debunking-myths-about-sexual-fluidity.html

Ash Fisher (Comedian)
http://www.ashfisherhaha.com
Heart and Dagger Saloon
http://www.heartanddaggersaloon.com/
Tinder
https://www.gotinder.com/

Music-
"Let's Get It Started In Here" by The Black Eyed Peas, Elephunk
"Hide Away" by Daya, Daya-EP
"Laced" by DMA'S, DMA'S-EP
"Bright" by Echosmith, Talking Dreams
 

https://www.facebook.com/datetalk

http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Shades of Black and White

Navigating interracial dating can be complex. The month Cheryl has a series of dates with a black, Puerto Rican man. As a newly dating, mixed race couple it's hard to see if the issues are plain compatibility or complicated cultural and economic issues. This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira try to unravel where the attraction went wrong and why.  on Racism:
Those People
Salon.com

Interracial Dating Articles:

Series of Interacial Dating Articles: 
Huffington Post

Interracial Dating Statistics
Wikipediawww.facebook.com/datetalk

9thfloorradio.com/datetalk
Date Talk on  iTunes
comedycheryl.com
facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Talk: Trans-(Ditional) Dating

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It's a new world order for dating.  Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual....where is the attraction?  Is it fluid, static?  This Date Talk Cheryl goes for a coffee date with a transgender woman (MtF) and learns to navigate past her own ingrained stereotypes to find a few realities about the world. Ira and Cheryl prove it's never too late to get a clue.
 
How common is Intersex condition at birth?:
http://www.isna.org/faq/frequency
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dana-beyer/what-makes-a-woman-a-tran_b_7533324.html
Comedy Machine: 
www.facebook.com/sfcomedymachine
 
https://www.facebook.com/datetalk
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2
http://www.comedycheryl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl
https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer